Live your life.
The whole life can be a mistake if you don’t live your own life.
You just follow someone’s expectations and live other’s life. You don’t pursue what you love; you don’t even know what you love. You only expect that something good would happen to you, and do nothing. And on and on. Compared to these, it would be much better to be completely brainwashed and live a whole life without noticing what our own life is.
Once we begin to notice our true self, here’s what happens:
“You are constantly invited to be what you are.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
And it’s quite hard to refuse this invitation.