Your hurt tells the truth.
None of us wants to hurt our own feelings. But—what if it would tell you what matters most to you?
Even when we don’t exactly know the most important thing in (or for) our life, our soul knows it and always try to protect it—sometimes in a weird way. For instance, an affectionate person who believes in the power of love may seem to be very hard-hearted so that the person can protect his or her sensitive soul against ruthless people.
Focus on what hurts your feelings. Be aware of what you think or react when someone tries to hurt your feelings. That’s a clue to a hidden, precious treasure of your life.