We are all winners in the first place.
When it comes to life, winning or losing is not the fact. It’s just the state of mind.
Life is a serious game. It can be quite difficult at times. But it is also the game that everyone can win. Many people don’t think that way. They are like “I want to win (but don’t even care even if someone is losing instead)”. Even self-help gurus don’t always think that way. Some of them are like “come to my seminar, so you can be successful like me (while you make me rich for sure)”.
Either consciously or subconsciously, we think that there are always winners and losers. It just turns out that we are just labeling people (including ourselves) as a winner or loser based upon our own criteria, which differ from person to person.
Our life is full of winning. Waking up in the morning is winning. Being healthy is winning. Spending time with loved ones is winning. Doing what you like is winning. And on top of that, being alive is winning.
Why do we have to label our life as something else? Why do we have to consider other people as a loser although doing so doesn’t make our life better? It just doesn’t make sense.